“Some things will
never change”…….
Sometimes saying
this sounds so negative. Usually when we utter these words, it is in pure
disappointment. We never truly wish positive situations to change, but we hope
and pray that negative situations do.
Sometimes, there are
situations in which in order for them to change that would require the efforts
of another individual. Just by bringing that individual in the equation there
is a 50/50 chance that you will either fail or succeed……
I thought things
would get better with time. I thought that some things would change…. I prayed
that some things would change…….. I wishes and cried and hoped that some things
would change….but you know what…. They didn’t. No matter how much I wanted the
situation to be different, it did not matter because it involved more than just
me.
Sometimes we are so
hard on ourselves. We cast the blame fully on us. We get on our knees and look
to the sky and say “Why me?”……….but why? …. Do we not realize that although in
some situations we are fully to blame, in others we are only partly? For
example, it is like a race in which you have to tag the other person to start
running. If you are ahead of the competition and then you tap your partners
hand and he or she refuses to finish the race and you come in dead last, is it
your fault that you lost? It may be partly your fault, but the blame is moreso
on the other person because they didn’t even try.
Some things will
never change………….I said how I felt, I showed how I wanted to be treated….I
really did try…….but my effort was cancelled out by the lack of effort on the
other person’s part. In order for change to occur, positive forces must
interact. Change is cancelled out when a positive and a negative force collide…I
realize this…. And despite how unhappy it makes me, I just have to realize that
some things never change……
I thought things
would get better with time. I thought that some things would change…. I prayed
that some things would change…….. I wishes and cried and hoped that some things
would change….but you know what…. They didn’t. No matter how much I wanted the
situation to be different, it did not matter because it involved more than just
me…..and I can’t force others to change………
Just something to
think about…. Have a great day.
-Monica Renata
Monica Renata
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